The term (however horrible) 24 / 7 is defined as a relationship of continuous type. In BDSM, this means a coexistence of the sub and Dom with a possible double bond. I have already said and I repeat, while the utmost respect for those who choose this route, I am absolutely against. The reason is not only and perhaps not fully explicable. A first explanation is that I am quite allergic to long-term romantic relationships, but I know for sure is that the woman I want next in the difficult moments of life (illness, bereavement, problems of various kinds) is not certainly a woman used only to bow his head and say yes. I could imagine a mistress as a companion, if I had the feeling that the "two roosters in the hen house" would last a long amen.
Another problem is the emotion of the meeting, session .. Anyone who is married or cohabiting for a long knows that the thrill of sex with a partner decreases over time. Eventually he heated soup, put off when you are tired or when you have some thoughts. And back to BDSM? I do not think there is any difference, the occasional (though rare) provides a thrill that the regularity can not provide.
And last but not least, we are sure that a ratio of 24 / 7 add something to the Dom? I think not. This type of relationship is a security, peace of mind for the divers who takes it as a refuge, a protection. And this, in my view of BDSM is wrong. The sub exposed to the insults and sufferings of the world is softer and more malleable in the expert hands of Sun
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