It 's no doubt that objects, even and especially those of dubious value, have a major role in our society. There are cabinets full of beautiful objects and unnecessary (and often not so beautiful). It 's a sign of our times, the consumer society. Instead of having being.
Far be it from me to the moral. But there is some thought that comes to mind if you carry these thoughts to BDSM. Seeing some footage and many pictures you find on the web, it seems that a Dom / sub is made mainly of leather, studs, pillory, crosses of St Andrew and Heavy Metal all the paraphernalia that comes to mind. And this may lead to a sub or a newcomer to think that if the Dom does not have a dungeon, cold and dark, is not a true Master.
Since all the bells and whistles which I have mentioned (and countless others) are or may be pleasing and exciting items to spark the imagination, I actually feel that this exchange to induce the appearance for the substance . The Dom / sub is and remains primarily a relationship of psychological type. To make it work just the presence of both (and often no, because it works in some cases even after). The hands, a belt, a brush, the pegs .. Cheap enough to make it work.
Everything else, if it tickles the imagination, is welcome, but comes later.
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