I read with increasing less interest and growing disappointment ads on specialized sites of "slaves" in search of a Master. Mind you, when someone makes an announcement is padronissimo to specify what they are looking good and free to describe the tiniest details. But what do they seek? Reading between the lines (and often not much between the lines) it is clear that the alleged slave seeking not so much not just a Master, as a life partner. Most of them, in fact, is concerned to specify that "wants" (that word out of place for their role!) A Dom engagements not engaged and not married. Therefore want a "relationship".
How sad. As if being subjected to a true Master and not able to be a "report" fairly strong and pervasive. As if the time spent together we had to rely on minutes and not emotions. The truth is that fully 90% of so-called "slaves" are women, unable to build a social life, often unpleasant in appearance. They "offer" as slaves, knowing that it could not attract any other way. But in return ask (pretendono!) the report, the company, the time of their Master.
What is striking about this is that these claims slaves do not realize that BDSM is a search within themselves and not outside. The Dom is the one who takes your hand and guides you in search of your deepest emotions, of your dark desires, feelings that your body can give you. What does all this with the fact that he is engaged or married? What is free on Sunday? When has the keys of your mind he can enter at any time.
Maybe that's why we in the Third World in terms of BDSM?